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July 2006 NCFM-SD/California Men's Center Activity Report  
October 2006 NCFM-SD/California Men's Center Activity Report  
December 2006 NCFM-SD/California Men's Center Activity Report

March 2007 NCFM-SD/California Men's Center Activity Report

January 2008 NCFM-SD/California Men's Center Activity Report

April 2008 California Men's Center Quarterly Activity Report

April 7, 2008: California Men's Center gets notice in the National
Journal article "
Domestic Politics".

May 11, 2008 California Men's Centers
Newsletter, packed with
pictures and things to read (WORD 97-2003 version).
Or, click here for the
PDF version, though links may not work.

5/9/08: Steven Svoboda, NCFM, was quoted for the article
Lifestyle: Who Gets the Friends After Divorce

“Steven Svoboda, spokesman for the National Coalition of Free
Men (NCFM), an educational organization that examines how sex
discrimination affects men.

    “One thing that definitely does happen is men tend to get
    portrayed as the bad guys, but not always,” Svoboda said.

    He said this shows up in tangible ways, such as custody
    decisions, but also affects how friends react after a divorce.

    “He might not be the bad guy, but people are going to
    assume he’s the bad guy until it’s proven otherwise.”

http://www.recorderonline.com/news/ugly_36089___article.
html/divorce_friends.html

5/13/08: Marc Angelucci (NCFMSD/LA), Fred Sottile (NCFM/f4j –
Fathers 4 Justice), and myself spoke to the student government
about domestic violence and discrimination against men at West
Torrance High School, CA, high school, which we believe is a
historic first.

5/14/08: After sending out a press release on May 12, 2008 NCFM
was mentioned in the article “California Group Defends Fairfield
Father”.  Again, thank you John D. (NCFM) for telling us about the
case and helping with the press release.
 http://www.wcpo.
com/mostpopular/story.aspx?content_id=ec94860e-0d07-4ff4-
9644-902dd3cc1ddc

5/15/08: NCFMSD member Attorney Al Rava was a guest for an
hour on the Marc Rudov radio show. Marc appears every week on
Fox's Bill O'Reilly and Neil Cavuto shows, where he debates a
female on topical gender issues.  Marc spoke about litigation
concerning sex-based promotions in California.
http://www.
wsradio.com/internet-talk-radio.cfm/shows/The-Marc-Rudov-Show.
htm

5/15/08: Marc Angelucci, Dennis Ettlin (f4j/NCFMLA), and myself
were guests for an hour on the national syndicated Tom Lykus
Show talking about our experience at West Torrance High School,
domestic violence, and discrimination against men.
http://podcast.
971freefm.com/klsx1/1092275.mp3

5/15/08: Linda Evans, Friend of the California Men’s Center/NCFM
and CRISPE won her CA appeal pro bono and was kind enough to
make sure the California Men’s Center was mentioned in the
related front page article of the San Diego Region section of the
San Diego Union Tribune.
http://www.signonsandiego.
com/uniontrib/20080515/news_1m15appeal.html

5/16/08 is the debut of SUPPORT System Down in San Diego, a
film by Angelo Lobo, the showing of which is sponsored by NCFM,
John Van Doorn (NCFM member running for San Diego County
Supervisor), and CRISPE.
http://www.supportthemovie.com/
Activities
Ray Blumhorst Dec. 2006
December 19, 2006

I want to thank the San Diego Men's
Center for all the outstanding work it
does. I have seen the Center grow
from a mere idea with a simple
philosophy to a full-blown center
that is helping scores of men,
women, children, and families in
need. The Center is truly historical
and badly needed. I am proud to
work with the Center and will
continue to support it in any way I
can.

Marc E. Angelucci, Esq.
President
Los Angeles chapter
National Coalition of Free Men
http://www.ncfmla.org
CRISPE
IN THE NEWS     

MAWAD: NFL champ fights to be a father, by Tammie Toler,
Princeton Times, Charleston, January 18, 2000:  As a cornerback
in the NFL, Tim McKyer knew how to win on the gridiron...the judge
gave most of his money and home to McKyer’s ex-wife in an order
that McKyer said included an announcement that his money no
longer belonged to him — it belonged to the state...Larry Kirkman
didn’t drive his trademark purple bus to Charleston, but he did
make it to the capitol city Sunday.

Cann tragedy spurs visit from parents' rights group
Norton Mirror - Milford,MA,USA September 13, 2007:
The bus, driven by Larry Kerkman, president of Children's Rights
Initiative for Sharing Parents Equally (CRISPE), is on a national
tour that began in San Diego...

CRISPE Bus Stops in Berkley
WVNS-TV, WV - Aug 15, 2007
CRISPE or Children's Rights Initiative for Sharing Parents Equally
and Men and Women Against Discrimination set up shop at the
corner of North Fayette and...

CRISPE Bus in Town
WTAP-TV, WV - Aug 14, 2007
The Children's' Rights Initiative for Sharing Parents Equally bus, or
CRISPE for short, is traveling to Washington DC for a National
Family Rights rally.

Raising Awareness For Equal Parenting
WVVA TV, IL - Aug 15, 2007
The group, Men And Women Against Discrimination, welcomed the
CRISPE Bus into Beckley Wednesday afternoon. The CRISPE Bus
is on a national tour to raise...

Rallying for Family Values
Wheeling News Register, WV - Aug 15, 2007: The goal of CRISPE
is to change family law to coincide with the various long-term
studies that were published in the late 1990s...

Bulletin board
Charleston Gazette,  USA - Aug 12, 2007: For information, call 295-
0053 or visit www.mawadwv.org, www.crispe.org or www.
dcrally2007.com. Retired United Steelworker's SOAR, Local 5668
will meet at 10...

Robert Pedersen's Eyewitness Account of this Weekend's Rally
in...
Men's News Daily, CA - Aug 19, 2007... Children's Rights Council,
Dads and Moms of Michigan, Fathers4Justice, A Child's Right,
Family Rights Coalition, CRISPE and so many more...

The National Coalition of Free Men (NCFM) every other year
"Face-to-Face" meeting will be held at the California Men's Center in
San Diego or in another selected city. All NCFM members are invited.

NCFM was established in 1976. At the September 2007
"Face-to-face" the California Men's Center San Diego became
NCFM's national headquarters.

Below are activities for the San Diego and Los Angeles Chapters.
On the left column are "In The News"
CRISPE articles.
California Men's Centers
932 C Street, Suite B
San Diego, CA 92101
619-231-1909
Our Mission
To help men, their families,
and the women that love them.
YOU CAN HELP
The California Men's Center
San Diego relies on the
benevolence of many. We do
not seek or accept
government grants. Instead
we rely primarily on private
donations though when
possible we will seek private
foundation assistance.

The California Men's Center
San Diego's parent
organization, NCFM, is a
501(c)3 nonprofit corporation.
All donations are tax
deductible.
Official PayPal Seal
Check our calendar for
events, meetings, and
special guest speakers.
You need Java to see this applet.
Volunteers Rich (back of head) and
Stewart. Rich doing web work for
CRISPE. Stewart doing data entry
updating one of our email data bases
(February 1, 2008)
Excellent video on the importance of
equal parenting. Mike McCormick of
ACFC interviews Warren Farrell.
Court Quips








Rob Riggs of the Dailyshow
takes on Berkeley's Code Pink
Shock and Awe campaign
against the Marines.



The NCO's (no contact orders) currently do not mandate that the
person requesting the NCO abide by any of the rules that bind the
person the order was taken against. In my case my ex actually
called the Sheriff's dept. and claimed I had attempted to contact her
by phone. When the officer, bright guy and not lazy, asked to see
her cell phone so he could verify the call he found NO ONE had
called her at the time she claimed I had called and he could not
find evidence that I had ever called. This officer contacted me and
told me what had transpired. I showed him where SHE had
attempted to contact me. Her number was in my incoming/missed
call log. Her attempts, both the claimed call and the calls she
made to my phone, were to make it appear I had violated the NCO.
If she had been held to the same standard of conduct as I as
regards the NCO she would have to face the judge and could be
arrested (
if not jailed, emphasis ours). The current laws do not
provide punitive measures against those persons that obtain a
NCO and then make every attempt to get the party arrested for
non-compliance with the NCO." (
Or, there are no provisions to hold
accountable those who willfully manipulate the NCO's she/he were
granted to maliciously entrap the target(s) of the NCO's
).

JR - January 2007

Just so you know, generally, law enforcement discourages the use
of mutual restraining orders. Why? When only one party is
restrained the police know who to arrest; that is, they arrest the
person restrained regardless of who initiated the violation of the
order.
What's the problem with restraining or "no contact" orders.
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