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the women that love them.
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Diego relies on the benevolence
of many. We do not seek or
accept government grants.
Instead we rely primarily on
private donations though when
possible we will seek private
foundation assistance.
I am not a particularly religious person, but I swear Harry Crouch is an Angel!

I contacted Harry looking for help with my current divorce case. He made time for
me straight away, and went on to explain the process, the challenges and how he
could help. He presented the information, in a clear no nonsense way; at last
someone who gave the reality of going through divorce with children, and the
courts system.

Harry explained to me the importance of the mediation process, and we had two
long sessions preparing for my mediation meeting.  By the morning of the
mediation, I was feeling a little nervous, but confident Harry had prepped me well.
Everything went pretty much how Harry had described, and I used all his
techniques, from body language to time lines.

The outcome was better than I could ever have imagined, and it was all due to
Harry's commitment to me getting a fair hearing.

If you are in any doubt about using Harry's services, don't be - your kids are worth  it.
I couldn't of done it without you Harry!

Eternally grateful,

Simon
March 23, 2007
Harry in particular and the California Men’s Center San Diego in general have been
a fantastic and very needed source of support and information. This helped me to
better deal with the abusive situation surrounding my son's life. I got facts and I was
explained several things of how "the system works" which helped me make better
decisions. When I went to court the first time I had the naive idea that
courts=justice. Thanks to Harry and the CMCSD I realized that my situation was the
norm rather than the exception; this gave me strength, support and focus for which I
am very thankful.

Guillermo, San Diego, CA
October 20, 2006
Dear Harry... just wanted to take a few minutes and say thank you for getting me out
of a very dangerous situation. I feel so much better, I didn't think I could feel this
way again and that I was stuck in a very bad nightmare. Things are looking up for
me now. I start school this month which is what I wanted to do when I was there.
Your organization has been a very big help and all men that are a violent marriage
or don't have anyone else to turn to should seek you guys out. Once again thank
you.

Semper Fi, Jesse, eternally great full - January 2007
My name is Eddy Montgomery. I
just wanted to personally
thank Harry Crouch for
helping me. I have a three
year old son who I love with
all my heart. His mother was
trying to take the one person
that I work so hard to raise
and support out of my life.
Not knowing anything about
mediation (court ordered
child custody Family Support
Services mediation) I came to
Harry. The tools he provided
me helped me to still have an
active roll in my son's life.
Harry helped get me get 50/50
joint legal and physical
custody. There is no doubt in
my mind that I could not have
gone through this and had so
much success without Harry's
assistance.

August 21, 2006.
Three years and still going
I've been embroiled in a
debilitating contentious divorce
and child custody battle for
several years, all to the detriment
of my children and self. I would
like people to know that the
Men's Center is the only place
I've found that deals with gender
discrimination within the legal
system, particularly the Family
Court System. The Center is a
growing alliance of men and
women forging ahead to make
our system of justice more
equitable and less costly and
traumatic for all involved,
particularly men and their
children. Over the last year and a
half Center staff have helped me
with documents and provided
morale support, including
accompanying me hearings
when needed. I have regularly
attended evening meetings,
made numerous new
acquaintances and friends, all of
whom share similar experiences
to mine. If you have a similar
situation call the Men's Center
and see if they can help.

Edward G., October 2006
Five other reasons we do what we do...

When I had really bad times with my life and wife I was introduced to Harry Crouch
of the California Men's Center San Diego. Mr. Crouch helped me and my four kids
with my divorce, custody, and actually myself too. The team at the Men's Center
really came to my aide and always listened to my problems about everything going
on in my life. I pray those problems don't continue, but if they do I will go back to
the Men's Center for more help. Harry and his team were really good working with
me and my children, helped keep me level, and helped me through the legal
process. My four girls and I now stop by the Center just to say Hi. I would recommend
the Men's Center anytime and anyplace.

With Prayers from The Girls, Maddison,
Valerie, April, and Summer.

Thank You Very Much
Peter B.

September 25, 2006




NOTE: Peter gained 100% physical and legal custody of his four daughters. We
helped him get a restraining order, helped him get it served, and helped him
through other legal processes.
Another reason we do what
we do
My husband (Dr. Enrique Terrazas) is a
victim of Paternity Fraud. He appeared
on Good Morning America and ABC
News Now, as well as, several interviews
for the Times. I applaud you for
fighting. These women need to be
punished and put in jail! Please don't
stop the fight! I want to see my husband
have his day in court and receive
restitution for all his suffering. These
women are despicable and are not fit
mothers. Shame on anyone who
supports the lie.

Mia Terrazas - January 22, 2007
“Call Harry Crouch, he’ll help,” said Jan from the National Domestic Abuse
Hotline. What an understatement. Disingenuous attorneys, prejudiced family
mediation counselors, a wife with BPD had led me to a state of utter confusion.
“All I want is what best for my child,” I said to myself as if a lone voice in the
wilderness.

Brains scrambled, I called Harry. A voice in my darkness hour, he helped me
gain composure and take charge of an out of control situation - inside a
contradictory system where family counselors advocate co-parent harmony and
the court system foster confrontation, an incompatible dichotomy. Harry then
delivered genuine concern and calm clear accurate advice from one who has
obviously been in the trenches, one whose dedication to what’s right takes
priority over financial gain. Harry is a genuine hero, not just for me, but also and
more importantly for our child. His voice of experience made sense of a mind-
numbing situation during a nonsensical legal experience by providing candid
guidance at a pivotal point in the pursuit of what is best for our child.

Harry makes sense of those who speak from behind $200 ties. Who at times treat
their employers (us) like idiots, taking advantage of our lack of legal knowledge,
competitiveness with disregard for what is best for father, mother and child.
Harry reduces doubt, which decrease fear and eases stress and sets you
straight about who works for whom so you can approach your representation,
your employee, in an appreciative yet non-confrontational manner exhibiting
assertiveness and confidence while expressing the fact that your representation
works for you.

Regardless of the outcome of the trail, I have sincere gratitude and appreciation
for Harry’s no-nonsense advice and genuine caring,

Sincerely,

Phil Baker
December 29, 2006
Alberta's Children Services
California Men's Centers San Diego
932 C Street, Suite B, San Diego, CA 92101        Telephone: 619-231-1909
Harry Crouch is the first
name when it comes to mind
when it comes to FCS prep.
Harry is dependable and
reliable and has a real
interest in helping people
get through the process.

Harry spends quality time
with my clients preparing
them for mediation.

Kevin A. Polis
Mens Legal Center
2007
A Family Court Services report
will often make or break a client’
s case. A child’s access to a
parent may live or die based
entirely on that report.
Preparation for the best
possible outcome is therefore a
MUST.

Never have I received from my
clients such universal praise
and satisfaction about a
mediation coach, as I have
about Harry Crouch.

Never.

I now refer all of my FCS clients
to Mr. Crouch, with complete
confidence. Thanks, Harry!

Dean Schreyer
Senior Staff Attorney
MEN’S LEGAL CENTER
(619) 234-3838
July 23, 2007
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